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Tips & Tricks

how to dress

for family photos

Planning family photos should feel exciting — not overwhelming

One of the biggest questions I get as a photographer is:

“What should we wear?”

If you’re booking a family session with Lauren Mayes Photography, this guide will help you choose outfits that photograph beautifully, feel natural, and reflect your family’s personality.

TIP 1: Start with mom's outfit

I always recommend starting with mom’s outfit.

Why? Because when mom feels confident, the whole session flows better.

Look for:

Flowy dresses

Soft fabrics

Movement

Neutral or earthy tones

Colors that photograph beautifully in Oklahoma light:

Cream

Beige

Soft brown

Olive

Dusty blue

Rust

Muted mauve

(Avoid neon colors and super bright patterns — they reflect onto skin tones.)

TIP 2: Coordinate - Don't Match

Gone are the days of everyone wearing the exact same white shirt and jeans.

Instead:

Pick 3–4 complementary colors

Mix textures (knit, denim, linen)

Vary tones slightly

Example palette:

Cream + tan + soft blue + light denim

Think “blended” not “identical.”

Tip 3: Dress for the season

Oklahoma weather can change quickly, so planning ahead matters.

Spring:

Soft pastels, light layers, breathable fabrics.

Summer:

Light neutrals, flowy dresses, short sleeves. Avoid heavy black.

Fall:

Warm earth tones — rust, mustard, olive, cream.

Winter:

Layered neutrals, sweaters, texture, long coats.

Tip 4: Think Movement - Not Still Posing

I focus on movement and connection — not stiff posing.

Outfits that allow:

Sitting on blankets

Walking through fields

Lifting kids

Snuggling close

Photograph best.

Comfort = confidence.

Tip 5: What to Avoid:

Neon colors

Large logos

Busy small patterns

Athletic shorts

Brand graphics

Super matchy outfits

If you’re unsure, send me a photo of your outfits laid out together — I’m always happy to help you style your session

A Final Encouragement:

Your family photos are about connection — not perfection.

Kids don’t have to be perfectly behaved.

Outfits don’t have to be designer.

Everything doesn’t have to match.

What matters most is the love between you.

When you book with me, I intentionally schedule only one session per day so your family, senior, or love story gets my full attention — no rushing, no stress, just beautiful golden hour memories.

I can’t wait to capture yours.